Us asian have been accusing white people of being too flirty and open-minded like forever, but most of us are more filthy and sanctimonious in comparison with 'em. In some degree we don't seem to agree with their point of view 'bout sex. Well let's be fair, we all got needs and ain't nobody is above it. A guy can come hit on you at the dancefloor and do anything just to see what you got underneath the clothes. At times you might end up sleeping in a stranger's bed too, and when you're sober in the morning you'd swear to god not to do the same mistake again but I'm bloody certain the you'll definately walk in the same way again. Perhaps the only difference is he is not Mr.A but Mr.B this time. And of course the guilt won't emerge until your libido is gone and all your nerves back to calm. Everyone gets blindfolded when they are horny, especially the carnal men. When there's a big bulge under the pants all in their head is about finding a relief. Don't ever label guys 'jerks' or 'douchebag' just 'cuz they need sex. It is human nature, so take it or leave it.

Despite all that, it ain't easy to distinguish between genuine and sham sometimes. Even myself might also get trapped in some so-called sweet short romance too, yeah those flashy ones. Back to the aforenamed point, some people can do anything just to have you in bed for the night. They don't seem to want you or love you (some are even taken and have a bf/gf, or multiple partners? Lord knows) but there's just a lil thang in you attracts them and makes them find you real hot and fuckable. Thus they aim at their goal and start making plans; hit on you, sweet talk, and run they fingers through your body. When things seem getting sweeter and you start believing your moment has come, things could be twisted upside down in a sec. Delusion is over! There are always some rules in games you gotta learn and study. In this sorta game, only one thang you need to bear in mind forever, never fall. It's forgivable if you happen to be a newbie but you won't deserve sympathy. Go try things, be open, observe and see, don't be afraid of stumbling and getting hurt, that's all it takes for you to learn your lesson and be sophisticated. Just don't be the bitch who gets hurt and then keeps moaning how pathetic you are! =)